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Two Sides to Every Face!

Posted August 8th, 2010 @ 10:08pm

Welcome back readers...this week I am going to share with you how all of our lives are connected. Each of us have our own trials and tribulations in life, but what we learn from these life experiences is what we are called to share with others, so their pain and suffering lessons and brings them hope and healing, which then becomes a shared experience for all of us. We are healing together as one.

In this life we are all too familiar with "Light and Dark" which most of us know as the difference between Christ and Satin. Just like love and hate. Just like selflessness and selfishness. Which of these are you? The big question is not, What you are doing in your life, but why are you doing it? What are your motives in life? Do you use the words 'I and Me' a lot? Do you look at a recent family photo and look for yourself first and foremost in the photo before you look at others in the photo? Are you consumed with your image or how others see you? When others reach out to you and ask you for help do you quietly ask yourself 'What's in it for me?' Do you gracefully extend your hand to others without expecting something in return? Do you pretend to love others for your own selfish reasons?

Selfishness is the disease that will not save your life, but destroy you. If you are a seeker of your own life, you will lose it because the selfishness, the disease, will strike and you will not have a fulfilling life of Love. You need to get it right in your heart. Do the right thing even if it's for the wrong reasons. You need to develop the right motives. You need to seek a new heart, a new spirit, new motives that put you second and others first.

If Christ is Love and Satin is Selfishness, then you need to starve the fierce animal in you. You need to change your heart. It all begins with change, a change in your mindset. A change in your attitude. But without biting off more than you can chew, let's just take one step at a time so you do not become overwhelmed.

Trust me, this is contagious. I have been practicing change my entire life, even before I ever realized I was actually doing it. And even when I felt exhausted or I was full of rage or maybe I didn't feel anything at all, these are moments all of us experience. These are moments when we feel we "can't go on". It is then we need to figure out how we are going to get up, dust ourselves off and find the grace to keep going. All of us need love and support from mankind. We also need help from Christ. I learned in my own life that without Christ I could not have overcome such horrific life tragedies that I did if God were not with me, to see me through every dark moment.

It wasn't until I started to learn how to change my own thoughts, my thinking, my mindset that I really started to fully heal. And until I was able to change my mindset, my "Think / Feel / Do" daily program I would remain with a two sided face. One side of my face was "Light" and the other side of my face was "Dark". It was through discovering the power within that I became unstoppable. It was through forgiveness that I became irresistible. It was through perseverance that I became the deliberate creator of my life. It wasn't until I realized that I had the choice to change my motives that my heart would then change too.

Every trial, every dark moment in my life, as much as I do not care to bring these life experiences to the surface again, have taught me so much about life, about the power within, the gift of forgiveness and the internal perseverance just waiting for us to grab a hold of in order to transition our lives. And, it is with these life experiences, my foundation, that I have been called to be the teacher to others on the platform.

Blessings until next week!

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